How You Can Stop Mental Illness Stigma

MAY. 01, 2017

By Luna Greenstein


Some people believe that focusing on fighting stigma is a worthless cause. They wonder why NAMI pushes our StigmaFree campaign so much. Why does being StigmaFree matter? What difference does it really make?

Because of stigma, those who experience mental illness are often labeled and seen as their condition—and nothing more. They are often:

  • Held responsible for their conditions.
  • Expected to change their thoughts and behaviors.
  • Avoided, isolated and ostracized.
  • Viewed as unpredictable, erratic and sometimes dangerous.
  • Considered incapable or unable to make rational decisions.

Living with a mental health condition is already challenging, and the added burden of stigma leads to tragic outcomes. According to the CDC, more than 41,000 individuals take their own life each year. Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death among adults in the U.S. and the 3rd leading cause of death among people aged 10-24. We need to step up to fight stigma and prevent suicide.

So, you see, StigmaFree is not just some marketing campaign—it’s an individual’s all-encompassing approach to mental illness. When you are StigmaFree, you are:

Open to Conversations About Mental Health

To reduce mental illness-related stigma, we need to feel comfortable having conversations about it. It used to be that cancer was “taboo” to talk about, but through open and honest conversations, cancer became de-stigmatized. The more we talk about mental health conditions, the more normalized it becomes. Starting the conversation is the first step.

Respectful with Language

Words are powerful—they can both heal and harm. We need to watch our words when talking about mental illness:

Use person-first language. A person is not defined by a condition, and someone should not be addressed as such. A person experiences bipolar disorder—he’s not bipolar. A person experiences mental illness—she doesn’t belong to a group called “the mentally ill.”

Be cautious when talking about suicide. Suicide is a sensitive topic and should be talked about in a way that is respectful to the person and their loved ones. A person is “lost to suicide” or “died by suicide” rather than “committed suicide.” If a person tries to take their life, they “attempted suicide” opposed to “had an unsuccessful suicide.”

Challenge misconceptions. If you hear people use stigmatizing or harmful language, let them know.

Don’t use mental health conditions as adjectives. You shouldn’t call yourself “OCD” because you like to organize or say the weather is “bipolar” because it keeps changing. This undermines legitimate diagnoses.

Don’t refer to someone as “crazy,” “psychotic” or “insane.” For people going through challenging symptoms beyond their control, it can be very harmful to be labeled as “crazy” on top of it all.

Don’t use the term “others” or “abnormal.” Referring to people experiencing mental illness as “others” or “abnormal” creates an “us versus them” narrative. This can make people with mental illness seem inferior, different and as though they’re the outliers of society—which they are not.

Understanding of What You Might Not Understand

It’s challenging to understand something you’ve never experienced. And it’s easy to think that people are exaggerating or making up symptoms for attention, but this mindset is dangerous and hurtful.

Living with a mental health condition makes everyday tasks—like going to work, spending time with friends and getting out of bed in the morning—more difficult. If an employee needs a sick day for mental health or if a friend cancels plans at the last minute, try to be understanding and empathetic. You never truly know what someone else is going through.

Supportive of Other People’s Struggle and Recovery

Supporting other people can be challenging, especially when you don’t understand their struggle. It’s hard to know what to say and sometimes it can feel like a lot of pressure. But your support can have life-saving repercussions, as feeling supported is one of the most essential aspects for a person in recovery. For example, note the difference between these two conversations:

Your close friend has been distant lately. She doesn’t want to hang out anymore. When she does, she seems unhappy and withdrawn. One day, she’s upset about something you think is a small problem, so you don’t understand her reaction.

  1. After listening to her talk about and examine the problem from every angle, you get impatient. You’re tired of being around someone who is always unhappy and so easily upset, so you blurt out, “It’s not that big of a deal! Why are you so upset about this? Just snap out of it!”

    She starts crying and leaves. You don’t hear from her anymore.

  2. Even though you don’t understand why your friend is so upset, you want to help. After she finishes talking, you ask her, “Is anything else going on? I only ask because you seem a bit down lately. You can always talk to me.”

    “I don’t know… I haven’t felt like myself recently. I’m not sure why.”

    “Have you ever thought about going to talk to someone about it? I can help you research and go with you if you want.”

    “Yeah. Maybe I should do that. I would really appreciate your help."

The difference between the two is clear: stigma versus understanding and support. You can make a positive impact on someone’s mental health just by offering a few kind words. A few minutes of your time can change a person’s life.

Active in Spreading Mental Health Awareness

The societal perception of mental illness won’t change if we don’t act to change it. It’s up to us to tell others what it means to experience a mental health condition. Mental illness is real, and it isn’t always in a person’s control. People who live with mental health conditions are not alone—there is hope.

For us, StigmaFree is more than a campaign—it’s the foundation of our movement to create a better world for people affected by mental illness. No real improvements will happen—to the health care system, to treatments, to research—if mental illness isn’t understood first. Monumental change won’t happen until people realize the harm stigma creates for millions of Americans.

StigmaFree is our way of pushing towards this monumental change. Each person who takes the StigmaFree pledge helps us get one step closer. So, this Mental Health Month, join the movement, take the pledge and be StigmaFree. We need to show the world that we are all #IntoMentalHealth.


Laura Greenstein is communications coordinator at NAMI.


JUN, 19, 2017 08:32:02 AM
Christa Biber
My heart goes out to All Bloggers. The law enforcers , teachers, etc. should have to spend some time in a mental health setting- be it Outpatient, Inpatient setting. No hours spend in class room lectures can "open eyes" and hopefully become better educated,empathetic, insightful and then better serve their community.

JUN, 15, 2017 01:43:25 PM
Margie Annis
The worse tragedy that can happen to a mentally ill person is having a mental health crisis and being shot and killed by an off duty detention deputy that is not educated or trained on how to deal with the mentally ill. No one in the legal system or the news reporters who covered the story cared about the 30 year old that was shot or the reason for yes the criminal act of the mentally ill individual other then labeling him crazy. Add to the tragedy the State Attorney ruled it justified homacide in less then two weeks. The young man that did the killing in the eyes of the public and the police department labeled him the hero. I am the mother of the mentally ill young man that was killed August 5, 2016 at 5:18am.
To fight the stigma is a climb higher than Mt. Everest. But it must be done one inch at a time. To late for my son, but maybe not for other mothers children!

JUN, 14, 2017 12:18:29 PM
Jessica Lowry
My daughter is 15 and missed middle school due to depression and acute social anxiety. I have had little success finding other parents to communicate with and share experiences with. I was in one Support Group for a couple of weeks that was really helpful but my daughter left the program. Im thinking of maybe starting a Support Group or blog.

JUN, 01, 2017 08:57:39 AM
The stigma lives on. I moved to be close to my grandchildren and my DIL refuses to let me even see the grandchildren. It is hurtful since I do see my doctor regularly and have been steadily employed since I was 16. I am over 60 now . All my jobs required me to be a position of trust. Now I am retired, living within 3 miles of them but totally ignored. I did not choose depression but it choose me. All the female members of my extended family have a similar malady starting with my grandmother and concluding with my daughter. It's better not to mention it I find because "some" people are afraid of being around a person being treated by a psychiatrist, assuming the worst.

JUN, 01, 2017 08:38:23 AM
Jenny pile
When I was first diagnosed bipolar one of my drs called me crazy. He was joking of course, but I told him it hurt my feelings ~ he never made that mistake again. We are still dr/patient after over 11 years now. Speak up for yourself as well as others. It is the invisibility of a disease that makes it so tough in my opinion. If I wore a Cast you could see you would more than likely treat me differently not indifferently. I am an extremely sensitive person. Any mention of any kind of pain, I am bawling. I have no control over it. It is extremely embarrassing. I feel your pain. I cannot explain it, it is what it is. Signed,

MAY, 31, 2017 11:01:29 PM
Rosemarie Mascitelli
Now how do we get the leader of USA to understand that? How do we raise society's do we open their eyes? How do we battle indifference and apathy? I had a biological brother tell me : "I guess thats YOUR burden. " brothers were and are very cold to tye whole subject. Some biological families are toxic and uninviting so its best to forget one ever knew them and move on....THEY are dead weight...closed minds..better not to waste energy on people like that, I think.

MAY, 31, 2017 10:03:24 PM
I tired to take my life o.k. 10.1.16 -I am now going to be sent to jail because i drank and tried to roll my car. Sadly I hit another vehicle and did not die. Now I'm learning how little the legal system cares. For 54 years i have never been a drug or alcohol abuser. Now that is all I hear. I have a "scram" to monitor my alcohol use and child be using the money's spent on this devise and court for therapy but not once had the reason for this accident been mentioned. I tried to get help. No one seemed to care. I wish i had a support system before this event. I will probably go to jail in July. My lawyer said I should have shot myself or hit a tree and not endangered others. I think there are flaws in the legal system and now that 8 months have passed I am looking for ways to talk about this. I was in a horrible place and will be labeled the rest of my life as a criminal. I'm no longer embarrassed to say i suffer from depression and anxiety. Thank you NAMI for helping break the stigma of mental health

MAY, 10, 2017 12:08:46 PM
Tamzan Guarino
The stigma of mental illness is lack of communication between the medical community and families. I always spoke up even if they couldn't speak to me.I gave them all the information I could Isn't that the point.. A patient in crisis is Not necessarily competent and needs all the help he or she can get.

MAY, 09, 2017 06:01:05 PM
Alexa Venidis
The information outlined in this blog is so important. An individual should be never be defined by the type of illness they exhibit... Kindness and empathy goes a long way. Great read!

MAY, 07, 2017 06:43:38 PM
Suzette Walters -Combs
I hope we who deal with mental illnesses will someday not be labeled by society as crazy I hate that when I get called that

MAY, 07, 2017 06:40:19 PM
Suzette Walters -Combs
I get called crazy alot my son I am bi polar manic , I have PTSD,social phobia ,anti social,ocdand I suffer with parornonia my son used to tell me I was wishy washy my daughter couldn't understand why I would get upset over her calling me crazy grandma they are getting better now I have been mentally ill since I was14 undiagnosed my mother's death of Brian cancer kicked it in I had a nervous breakdown I was hospitalized since then I have found a great pschyrtics I have been seeing for 13 years on and of different meds on a good combo now have a good support system but it's still hard I still struggle with people labeling me

MAY, 07, 2017 06:39:35 PM
Suzette Walters -Combs
Recently went to a pain doctor for fibromyalgia when she found out I was mentally ill she did not want give meds she said because I was mentally ill I would get addicted I was pissed that she instantly labeled me

MAY, 04, 2017 08:59:04 AM

MAY, 03, 2017 12:08:00 AM
Cindy mejia
I've been dealing with mental illness in my family my whole life starting w my dad and cousin. Now my son!!! People should be ashamed of themselves for judging or turning their backs on family members cos of their condition!!!! I see it all the time!!!! Every time my sons in the hospital he's the only one that has a visitor. That's soooo sad!!!! If you don't have your family who do you have?? Ppl need to get real. This is an illness just like any other and I am infuriated by ppl calling them crazy. That's cruel!!!!!!

MAY, 02, 2017 11:12:22 AM
Donna Mac
Thanks, NAMI! These are extremely simple, helpful, common sense language & tips that we all need to be reminded of to open and better conversations about mental illnesses.

MAY, 02, 2017 03:57:21 AM
Lizanne Corbit
Fantastic read, on an incredibly important mission. For everyone living with a mental illness, and for all those who are affected by it, this is a huge thing. Mental illness has so many misconceptions and preconceived notions swirling around it getting real understanding and support around it will make a world of difference. It begins with education, and hopefully ends in full acceptance. Thank you for sharing.

MAY, 02, 2017 03:47:29 AM
Great blog! Some excellent points and tips in here and I hope it is seen by many.

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